AdviceObsessed

AdviceObsessed

But "I love you" is so intense!

50 ways to avoid your lover.

Sep 06, 2024
∙ Paid

Original column: Carolyn Hax, August 31 2024 (scroll down to letter from “Affectionate”)

My take: The letter-writer loves her family, but wants help expressing that when she’s with them. What she’s been saying is “You are loved,” and she says it as she’s walking away. This elicits “Love you, too.” But the whole business is just uncomfortable.

Carolyn off…

Keep reading with a 7-day free trial

Subscribe to AdviceObsessed to keep reading this post and get 7 days of free access to the full post archives.

Already a paid subscriber? Sign in
© 2026 Rachel Wildavsky · Privacy ∙ Terms ∙ Collection notice
Start your SubstackGet the app
Substack is the home for great culture