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Dear Abby, March 19 2024, "Relative Offended by Couple's Change to Wedding Plans"

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Rachel Wildavsky
Mar 24, 2024
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Link to the original column here.

My take: To recap, a relative of the LW was planning a formal wedding followed by a reception. On the last day for RSVPing, via postcard, the couple announced a “change of plans.” They said they’d decided to keep the wedding private, so guests were invited only to the reception.

The LW thinks it’s “extremely rude and pre…

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