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Dear Prudence, January 20 2024: Should "Concerned" stay true to his Jekyll-and-Hyde Girlfriend?

He had to ask?!?

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Rachel Wildavsky
Mar 10, 2024
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Link to the original letter here. Scroll down to find letter from Concerned.

My take: To recap, the LW wants to know if he should carry on with the girlfriend he “loves intensely” and wants to be with “for the rest of our lives,” despite his “qualms” about her. Or might there be someone better out there?

Sure there is! A hornet,…

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