"Friendship matters more than political differences — right?"

Or: How to tell them calmly that they're bigots.

Original column: Carolyn Hax, January 8 2025.

AdviceObsessed was hopeful when she saw the headline on this new column by Carolyn Hax: "Friendship matters more than political differences — right?" Here, at last, would be something cozy, on which she and Carolyn could agree!

But Carolyn’s answer is no, friendship is not more important. So on behalf of frie…