“He Wants to Break Up Before He Deploys”

Is he really just a commitment-phobe?

Original column: Dear Wendy, no date

My take: Seven months ago the LW, a grad student, met an air force pilot. They jumped into a relationship with both feet, even though the air force was about to move him across the country.

They were a perfect match! When he had to leave, they agreed to continue long-distance. Once separated, they texted continuously…