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"I Miss Being on Dating Apps"

"I Miss Being on Dating Apps"

Don't hate the commitment-phobe.

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Rachel Wildavsky
Apr 17, 2025
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The column we’re discussing is by “Dear James” in The Atlantic, March 18, 2025.

In this column I had the pleasure of catching up with a creature I used to know well, in the dating market where I dwelt long ago. Or to use the metaphor preferred by Dear James, the “dating game.”

I refer to the commitment-phobe. Like the guy discussed in this column,…

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