Man, this is a tough one. Yes, as much as I don’t care for the co-worker/wife contingent, it definitely seems that the LW and the husband may have a deeper problem. But I’m prejudiced against these LWs generally; it doesn’t take much to turn me against them. I assume there’s a wide spectrum among that demographic, including good and kind people who are at their wits’ end from dealing with the unresolved bullshit of people they care about. But! It does seem that a lot of them are self-indulgent people who have no idea why others are sick of them, and they’re “appealing to authority” for validation they don’t really deserve.
Agree.. I’d want to know why they didn’t want to be with her at the party.
Feels like that should be part of the picture, right? Without excusing them for their cruelty?
Man, this is a tough one. Yes, as much as I don’t care for the co-worker/wife contingent, it definitely seems that the LW and the husband may have a deeper problem. But I’m prejudiced against these LWs generally; it doesn’t take much to turn me against them. I assume there’s a wide spectrum among that demographic, including good and kind people who are at their wits’ end from dealing with the unresolved bullshit of people they care about. But! It does seem that a lot of them are self-indulgent people who have no idea why others are sick of them, and they’re “appealing to authority” for validation they don’t really deserve.
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