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Carrie-Ann Biondi's avatar

Yes, exactly this! "If she can’t solve a a simple problem like this without involving an advice column—if the look of the living room matters more to her than her boyfriend’s feelings and preferences—maybe she should ask herself if she’s really ready to live with him. Cohabitation is intense. It would be a good question to answer, before they get in even deeper than they already are."

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Tash's avatar

“I think you have a lot of feelings going on and maybe aren’t sure what they are.” - so patronising!!

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Rachel Wildavsky's avatar

I know, right?

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